DEAR PARENT,
Warn your girl child never to sit on anyone's
laps no matter the situation including uncles.
:-Avoid getting dressed in front of your child
once he/she is 2years old. Learn to excuse
yourself.
:-If you have to hire a house-help please
kindly take them for HIV screening to
determine their HIV status, properly interview
them and make up your mind to treat t
hem well.
:-Never allow any adult refer to your new
born as 'my wife' or 'my husband'
:-Never tempt your husband with your
younger sister. (Else he'd say its hers and the
devil's fault)
:-Avoid unnecessary familiarity and make sure
you take care of your husband by yourself lest
you lead him into temptation.
:-Whenever your child goes out to play with
friends make sure you look for a way to find
out what kind of play they played together
because young people now sexually abuse
themselves.
:-Never force your child to visit any adult he or
she is not comfortable with and also be
observant if your child becomes too fond of a
particular adult.
Once a very lively child suddenly becomes
withdrawn you might need to patiently ask a
lot of questions from your child.
:-If you don't teach your children about sex
and morales, the society will teach them the
wrong values.
:-It is always advisable you go through any
new material like cartoons you just bought
for them before they start seeing it
themselves.
:-Teach your 3year olds how to wash their
private parts properly and warn them never
to allow anyone touch those areas and that
includes you. (remember, charity begins at
home and with you)
:-Blacklist some materials you think could
threaten the sanity of your child (that includes
music, movies and musicians) and let them
understand the value of standing out of the
crowd.
Once your child complains about a particular
person, don't keep quiet about it. Take up the
case and show them you can defend them
always!
NB: Dear unborn children of mine....I don't mean to still keep you over there...I'm still searching for the best MUM for you!
laps no matter the situation including uncles.
:-Avoid getting dressed in front of your child
once he/she is 2years old. Learn to excuse
yourself.
:-If you have to hire a house-help please
kindly take them for HIV screening to
determine their HIV status, properly interview
them and make up your mind to treat t
hem well.
:-Never allow any adult refer to your new
born as 'my wife' or 'my husband'
:-Never tempt your husband with your
younger sister. (Else he'd say its hers and the
devil's fault)
:-Avoid unnecessary familiarity and make sure
you take care of your husband by yourself lest
you lead him into temptation.
:-Whenever your child goes out to play with
friends make sure you look for a way to find
out what kind of play they played together
because young people now sexually abuse
themselves.
:-Never force your child to visit any adult he or
she is not comfortable with and also be
observant if your child becomes too fond of a
particular adult.
Once a very lively child suddenly becomes
withdrawn you might need to patiently ask a
lot of questions from your child.
:-If you don't teach your children about sex
and morales, the society will teach them the
wrong values.
:-It is always advisable you go through any
new material like cartoons you just bought
for them before they start seeing it
themselves.
:-Teach your 3year olds how to wash their
private parts properly and warn them never
to allow anyone touch those areas and that
includes you. (remember, charity begins at
home and with you)
:-Blacklist some materials you think could
threaten the sanity of your child (that includes
music, movies and musicians) and let them
understand the value of standing out of the
crowd.
Once your child complains about a particular
person, don't keep quiet about it. Take up the
case and show them you can defend them
always!
NB: Dear unborn children of mine....I don't mean to still keep you over there...I'm still searching for the best MUM for you!
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